Finding the right tool at the right time is a key part of personal growth. At Be The Bigger Person, we understand that your emotional needs change. Some days you need a strategic roadmap; other days, you just need a quiet space to process your feelings.
To help you navigate your current season, we’ve broken down the four essential books in the BTBP Collection based on the mood they address. Whether you’re facing a crisis or seeking a transformation, there is a science-backed resource ready for you.
1. The Problem-Solver Mood
The Scenario: You are facing a challenging situation; perhaps a conflict at work or a difficult person in your personal life and you aren't sure how to handle it without losing your cool.
The Book: Be The Bigger Person (BTBP)
When you are in a problem-solver mood, you need more than just encouragement; you need a 3-step decision-making process. This book is the foundation of our philosophy. It provides real-world scenarios and actionable solutions to help you maintain your composure and integrity when things get heated.
- Pick this up if: You need to figure out exactly how to take the high road right now.
2. The Visionary Mood
The Scenario: You’ve realized that your current routines aren't serving you. You’re ready to break old patterns, establish life-changing habits, and clearly outline your long-term goals.
The Book: Don't Give In (DGI)
The visionary mood is about looking forward. Don't Give In is designed for the person who is tired of the status quo. It focuses on the grit and self-discipline required to stay the course. It helps you dissect the habits that hold you back and provides the framework to build a disciplined, goal-oriented lifestyle.
- Pick this up if: You are ready to stop making excuses and start making progress.
3. The Introspective Mood
The Scenario: You feel a pull toward self-empowerment. You want to tap into your empathetic self, strengthen your mental resilience, and explore the creative side of your personality.
The Book: I'm Above It (IAI)
When you are in an introspective mood, you need a tool that blends art with psychology. I'm Above It is our motivational coloring book and prompt guide. It utilizes color therapy and journaling to help you channel your inner warrior. It’s less about doing and more about being; allowing you to explore your bravery and compassion through creativity.
- Pick this up if: You need to quiet the noise and reconnect with your inner strength.
4. The Expressive Mood
The Scenario: You’ve had a heavy day and your head is spinning. You need a safe, private space to vent, record your emotional state, and audit your mental wellness.
The Book: My Life Journal (MLJ)
The expressive mood is raw and honest. My Life Journal acts as your trusted ally, offering quick assessments and words of encouragement to help you navigate your innermost thoughts. It’s designed to help you process emotions in a healthy, structured way so they don't bottle up and lead to an outburst later.
- Pick this up if: You need to offload your mental burden and track your emotional health over time.
Which Mood Are You In Today?
Identifying your current state is the first step toward self-mastery. Being the bigger person is a multifaceted journey. Sometimes you lead with your head (BTBP), and sometimes you lead with your heart (MLJ).
Ready to find your match? Explore the Full BTBP Book Collection on Amazon and choose the tool that fits your current mood.